When I’m with my mum or girlfriends our conversations most of the times leads to the topic of multiple partners. Its so common these days that we can’t help it but talk about it.
Some say its got to do with ethnicity others say it’s in man’s nature, well the true is that both man and woman are choosing to have affairs out side relationships, especially man. So, are we capable of being with only one person or is monogamist the way forward?
I know this is a very delicate subject to write about, but the reality is we know some people have more than one partner. By this I mean taking another wife or girlfriend or having affairs outside of a marriage or committed relationships. According to African mans having more than one wife or partner can be a status symbol for the men – it shows they are not only desirable but says: ‘Look at me- I can afford to keep two women and double the number of children.’
We know that noone goes onto a relationship expecting to have their significant other find another. Yet time and time again we hear stories of woman and men distraught when they find out that the person they thought they knew has broken that scared vow and been intimate with someone else.
Sometimes things in life never go the way you expect them too. That’s both the joy and the frustration of life. I’m finding that as I get older, the only thing that I really have control over is my attitude towards things. But, if we focus on the positive things in our lives and learn how to overcome all the obstacles life throughs our way, we will find ourselves in a much happier place. The past few months have been very difficult for me, but I will tell you all more about it on a different post, so now lets get on to what matters.
You didn’t think I was going to let you dive into the new season without giving you a few, well some of my must have coats for this season, did you?
Well, as winter approaches the desire to find the perfect coat grows even more and believe me, I’m not an exception! So, I went ahead and picked a few that have caught my eye at the moment. Whether you want splash the cash or if you have a tight budget, I am sure you will find a style that you like.
The fact is, sometimes it’s really hard to walk in a single woman’s shoes. That’s why we need really special ones now and then to make the walk a little more fun (Carrie Bradshaw). Christian Louboutin Otrot 120 Colour-block (here), Black (here) and Orange (here)
Hi guys!! Hope you all have been doing ok. It’s been a slow start of blogging for me, the neverending gloomy days is just not helping and with sales still on, there isn’t a better