When I’m with my mum or girlfriends our conversations most of the times leads to the topic of multiple partners. Its so common these days that we can’t help it but talk about it.
Some say its got to do with ethnicity others say it’s in man’s nature, well the true is that both man and woman are choosing to have affairs out side relationships, especially man. So, are we capable of being with only one person or is monogamist the way forward?
I know this is a very delicate subject to write about, but the reality is we know some people have more than one partner. By this I mean taking another wife or girlfriend or having affairs outside of a marriage or committed relationships. According to African mans having more than one wife or partner can be a status symbol for the men – it shows they are not only desirable but says: ‘Look at me- I can afford to keep two women and double the number of children.’
We know that noone goes onto a relationship expecting to have their significant other find another. Yet time and time again we hear stories of woman and men distraught when they find out that the person they thought they knew has broken that scared vow and been intimate with someone else.
At times it feels like spring is just around the corner…doesn’t it?, I just hope it doesn’t take too long. It’s no news that I like mixing textures often and I find myself experiment with all that during winter the most which in my opinion its the best season to experiment with clothes. I mean, I don’t know if you agree but don’t you feel like you can pull almost anything by just putting a huge fur coat over it?
I have been wearing black a lot lately and if you ask me why? I wont know what to answer you, I just been wearing it a lot and I’m loving it, but as the new season approaches Im trying to build more colours in to my outfits and this is a good example of what I’m talking about. I hope you enjoy it and have an amazing weekend xoxo.
Wearing: Zara blaser old (similar), Zara skinny scarf (similar), Cos Skirt (similar), Louboutins shoes (similar), BiBa Feather Jacket (similar), I.D.Sarrieri lace body (similar), SIMT LUX HAIR (here)